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Nothing Compares

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T Murray
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I really am trying to connect with the world again. It feels like I have been in a bubble for years. It is so much easier to just be silent than to make plans and have to cancel or to have to explain why even though most of me is healthier than it has been in a long time I have to make allowances. I have to have perfect circumstances and lots of luck. I have to stay super hydrated and eat only certain foods at certain times in certain amounts. It is still quite frustrating.

I have however gone since August 2 without a prolonged AFib episode which is the longest I have gone since this whole thing started. I am SUPER happy about that.

But, as it works in my house my heart was taking care of business so my husbands when on strike. His coronary artery was quite badly clogged in two places. So we spent three days at the hospital last week. This time they did the balloon angioplasty with the meds attached to break up the blockage. He has so much hardware in that artery that if it blocks again they will have to restent the whole thing.

We have a lot of dogs in our neighborhood and few fences so there are lots of dogs being take on walks. At the beginning of the warm weather I noticed a new dog and owner. A lazy, inconsiderate, jackass and his beautiful giant Pyrenees. You have just never seen piles of dog poop so big! He has been confronted, his wife has been talked to and still….

So now I have invested in sidewalk chalk which was oddly more difficult to find then I expected this time of year. I started with a pack of regular size but very colorful chalk and that was too difficult to write with on rough cement so as we speak I have a pack of large hopefully vibrant sidewalk chalk sitting on the door step. Along with a 10 pound bag of raw peanuts so the the blue jays will stop yelling at me through the window when I work out. I need to brain storm some short but clear phrases to write on the sidewalk that will not offend anyone who did not leave their dogs piles of poo everywhere.

Also I got 12 inches of hair cut off.

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10 responses to “Nothing Compares”

  1. Susan Joos Avatar
    Susan Joos

    My gosh, Tracy! That is a lot!

    I have been worried for you about the A-fib stuff. That alone is so unsettling. I know someone else who is struggling with that, and I think they are going to have some kind of procedure done. Talking with Cleveland clinic and Ohio State and haven’t decided.

    Argh, and then your husband having heart problems, too! Although the whole thing with stents and balloons is pretty amazing compared to the old days. Love how he kept his ball cap on with the hospital how. That ought to be a thing! Hospitals should capitalize on that, lol.

    I’m glad you were able to stagger your care needs so you could be there for each other. That’s something that really worries me now that our daughter and her family are in California. Nobody to rely on but ourselves, kind of, although Allen does have local siblings that would help if necessary. She was such a blessing to me the last time Allen had a procedure done.

    That is so awful about the dog poo! Why are people like that?! Eeew! Of course bigger dogs leave bigger piles, but even so they need to clean it up.

    Ooh, I should keep peanuts on hand. I have fed them from my balcony before and I love how choosy they can be until the last peanut is gone. We don’t see very many blue jays these days. When Amanda was in school, I would sit in the back yard on a swing to wait and listen for the bus coming down the street to meet her at the end of the block. About that time in the Fall, the big oak tree next door would be flush with ripening acorns, and the cacophony of blue jay hordes fighting over their delicious bounty. It was a sight to see (and hear!). I miss them. Even with all of our bird feeders, we will usually only see a random, solitary bird now and then.

    I saved the best for last; I love your hair cut! It looks so cool (in both senses) and it really allows your ear jewelry to shine, with your beautiful smile! I hope you love it, too!

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  2. T Murray Avatar
    T Murray

    Thank you for both the worry and the hair compliment. You may be thinking of an ablation. It is a very common fix for the aFib.
    I love having all my earrings showing. I have 9 holes in my ears, I did no go through that much pain for hiding hem away. I just ordered a gazillion cheap sparkly earrings the other day. 🙂
    When my husband was in the hospital being able to call my daughter to take care of the dogs when we went from a 4 hour stay to a 12 hour wait brought the anxiety level way down!
    My blue jays like to dip the peanuts in water so I keep a little bowl of water on the peanut tray and it makes me laugh to watch them!

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  3. Nina Avatar
    Nina

    Wow! How about the address of the dog owner in chalk on the sidewalk…or their phone number.

    Hope the new stints work…I’m always amazed at medical procedures available for almost anything but being the recipient isn’t usually fun except for the great nap.

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    1. T Murray Avatar
      T Murray

      Ooooo they better hope I don’t figure out the address! We only know approximately where they live

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  4. mb Avatar
    mb

    I’m really sorry that both you and your hubby have heart issues to deal with. I mean it’s great that the docs/hospital can fix things but it sucks to be in the hospital.

    I gotta say you look adorable with this new hair cut! And it looks so easy to take care of. Enjoy it!

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  5. Avatar
    Anonymous

    From Google AI

    Yes, commercial scent-based repellents like Messina Dog & Cat Stopper are safe to use on lawns. These products rely on natural essential oils and strong, harmless aromas that make dogs want to turn around and go elsewhere without damaging your grass.Safe Commercial OptionsGranules or Sprays: Products designed specifically for turf use won’t burn your grass when applied as directed.Scent Masking: They work by triggering a dog’s natural dislike for pungent, herbal, or spicy smells.Natural Alternatives and CautionsCitrus and Lavender: Scattering citrus peels or planting lavender around the edges can help, but avoid pouring raw essential oils or harsh liquids directly on the lawn, as concentrated oils or strong acids can kill grass.Reapplication: Most safe chemical or organic sprays wash away during heavy rain or watering and need regular reapplication.If you’d like, I can share tips on how to set up a motion-activated sprinkler or how to lay down a physical border if the sprays do not stop persistent visitors.

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  6. mb Avatar
    mb

    Whoops! I am the anonymous person.

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  7. mb Avatar
    mb

    Oh, should you put a camera in your front yard. Get video. Report to police. More from Google AI.

    No, it is not legal to leave dog waste on someone else’s private property. Allowing a dog to defecate on another person’s yard and failing to clean it up constitutes a property nuisance, illegal dumping, or a trespassing violation.Legal RulesProperty Rights: Entering private property without permission to let a dog relieve itself is a form of criminal trespassing.Waste Disposal: Leaving the feces behind violates general sanitation and nuisance codes.State Litter Laws: Under general Ohio standards, leaving pet waste on land you do not own is classified as improper disposal of waste or littering.What HappensFines: Offenders can face local code enforcement warnings or municipal fines if reported with evidence like photos or video.Reporting: Property owners in Toledo can report persistent nuisance or property violations through Engage Toledo.If you are dealing with a specific issue like a neighbor letting their dog use your yard, tell me if you want to know how to file a formal complaint or what evidence you need to stop it.

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  8. Sally Shoffer Avatar
    Sally Shoffer

    That is a lot to go through this month. I get the cancelling due to your body saying NO. It is frustrating and sad. Hope your husband is better.

    Idea for poop:
    Thanks for scooping the poop!
    It’s your doo-ty, so pick up the doodie.
    It’s not cool to leave stool.”

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    1. Tracy Avatar
      Tracy

      A little rhyming always makes everything better doesn’t it?

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