Sometimes I do it on purpose. I am much more honest with the written world when I am tired and have been imbibing a bit.
I try to not ever say anything that will make someone feel unnecessarily bad. Some people spend a lot time practicing what they will say for maximum impact. I practice for minimum impact. I try to make sure that people know that I think they are just fine the way they are. Warts and All.
I have something coming up and someone is going to say “oh no, I forgot!” And I will feel bad, because it’s 100% perfectly okay and I do not want them to feel bad.
Life is so complicated when you care about other people, isn’t it?
~edit – also someone just posted on a facebook post that has the same name of someone who died last year. I did not like it at all. 🙁